Is there a possibility of true LOVE today???
submitted 1 year 4 months 12 hours ago by: samia.sheikh : 21 comments
Yes, Im talking about true LOVE, does it really exist now-a-days??? I dont think so and I think so too. Im' totally confused. I'm talking here about 100% Love and this love is in general not restricted to a life partner. Love of a human with his God, Love of a Parent with his child, Love of a child with his parents, Love of a life partner and love as a common man with each other. The purity is gone in the last few years. I don't say that the love is totaly over but it's big part is over taken by worldly entities and money. Everyone is getting greedy about worldly stuff but not for love and affection. But I can always say with 101% surety that the love of my God is always pure for me and the rest of the world till, and beyond the life of this world. We are not sincere with Him and we dont love him truely. We do obey Him but not fully because we are lost in the colors of the world and we forgot what our life is about. After our God, our parents are the one who love us more. But we never love them in return the way they love us. Their cares and love for us is uncomparable to the greed in this world. But when I think that they will be gone from us forever, who will love us in that way. They will take everything with them and we will be alone in the sufferings of the world. There will be no hand on our head and say "BLESS YOU AND GOD ALWAYS KEEP YOU HAPPY". But we can always pray for their prosperous life beyond this world.
Regarding love of a partner, it is becoming complicated now-a-days. Expectations are too high and love is too less. Too much interuption by others causing a hell lot of confusions. No time for cares and affection. Both of them busy in their lives giving no true time to each other as family. The early charms of affection, love, care are faded away under the mists of daily obsessions. Rest I don't know much as I'm not into it right now.
Love for humanity is no longer in practice, its all over. If you see the present world, the circumstances are unbearable. People want to eat each other for wealth and position. You can see it with your own naked eyes. If a man is lying unconcious on the road only a little percent of people will come and help him, the rest will stand and see the hustle and bustle going on, commenting over what could be the possible reason behind it. The world is changing and so are the emotions of the people. LOVE has become meaningless now. But still there is LOVE important for few people, who think that life is beyond greed for money.
You may or may not agree to what I say but what ever I see and think, I just wrote it down. May Allah bless all of us (Ameen)
Regards,
Noble.
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TAIMUR ASGHAR QURESHI.
TRUE LOVE.
True love is the love which is unconditional in my opinion and the true love can only be the love of god and even mother's love can't be unconditional .
So we can say there is a possibility to get true love today for some people in my view but every person has his own theory about what true love is and its not possible for them to get true love today.
FIRST TRUE LOVE MUST BE DEFINED AND I CAN SURLEY SAY ALL PEOPLE WILL HAVE DIFFERENT DEFINATIONS OF TRUE LOVE.
Ahhaan...I have written all this to show my perception and to get others perception..thanx for our lovely opinion :)
TAIMUR ASGHAR QURESHI.
Well Miss.Saima Shiekh i had a second thought about the topic you posted in this buzz and my second thought guess is that you are looking for your true love may be a good looking boy or your ideal am i right .
Well Mr. Taimur Asghar Qureshi my reason for writing was not to find the "ideal match" coz I dont believe there is such a thing called an Ideal. I was talking about the true love for the whole humanity that is lost somewhere in the colors of the world.
By the way, is there a 'False Love' As well??? Love supposed to be true every time as noshi gilani says " i gone through 18 loves and all were true".
We all should keep in mind that we are here to discuss our ideas, thoughts and logics...so dont start a new argument
The ultimate sacrifice a person can give is that of his/her own life. If we are willinging to die for something, be it a lover, child, a parent, religion, an idea or a country, then that is our true love
well, ppl who love their motherland and compatriots passionately (given that its free of hatred for other countries) exhibit true love n such ppl do exist like DIG Saad Malik who laid his life on duty in Peshawar..he could have sent his subordinates for patrolling, patrolling was not his job requirement but still he went, to ensure that his countrymen can attend their religous procession in peace.
but love can't b totally selfless...give n take is involved...even in our relation with our Creator
I really appreciate ur views :)
thnx
it was my first post on this site but i wasn't registered then
Well in my opinion it will be a misjugement to say that there is nothing like true love. It may not be easy to find....but its there..... It can be that we are looking in the wrong places....with wrong people....in wrong directions.... We may find it when we least expect to find it.
Is there a difference between true love and unconditional love? I think true love is the one that is unconditonal, slefless and is ready to sacrifice anything. It can be the love for religion, country, parents, children, partner ..... anyone...!
Even parent's love is not unconditional....they love their children as long as they obey them...For instance, if a child goes against their will and marry out of his own will.....they might just throw him out of their lives forever.....!!
This is not true love....!! True love wants to see the other person even if it is at the cost of own happiness....!!
Love is hope springing from hopelessness
With love every foe becomes a friend
Every tear becomes a smile
Every tree is in bloom
For every season is spring
Every word is a poem
Every poem a song
Every song a melody
And every melody an emotion
Love is an oasis in the desert
A flourishing Island in the vast ocean
It is a drop of rain on the parched Earth
It is a thirst quenched
And the object of love is dearer than life itself
If you possess love
You possess no misery.
Love is the essence of existence
It gives direction to man’s inborn fury
It is a cloak worn by selfishness
It shows how deeply man is absorbed
In both himself and what he possesses
Yet a man in love is a man closest to God.
But now u keep urself as a parent and ur child is doing something u never expected.Will ur love change for him???????
@ Saima.sheikh
Of course, it will change...and it happens everywhere.....mostly love is conditional....unconditional love is very rare but not impossible to find.
I dnt think so fallen angel...if tht child is in pain u will go anywhere to help your child...in any circumstances.....
She is coming my own my sweet
Were it never so airy a tread
My heart would hear her and beat
Were it earth in an earthly bed
Khalifa is this a relavent poem???? Can be a part of it
samia.sheikh, what do you think of this one, then?
"Don't look at your form, however ugly or beautiful
Look at love and at the aim of your quest. ...
O you whose lips are parched, keep looking for water
Those parched lips are proof that eventually you will reach the source."
Thanx all for ur lovely comments..
i believe in true love and i hope one day i found true love!!!!!!!!!!!because is the thing i want the most in my life.........i bealive that the most inportant of all is to love and be loved in return..........
ur right eva..Inshallah ull get ur love soon :)
TAIMUR ASGHAR QURESHI.
Define True Love? Everyone. Everyone has a different defination of true love?
and many people have commented on this buzz who are in search of some one Man/Woman whom according to them would be there true love?