Trust is like virginity, you can only loose it once

@ Iola

May be you start trusting once you meet the right person. But its always better to be cautious... :)

It's caution that's a killer when all you want to do is throw caution to the dogs, not the winds, in my case, unse special affinity hai. :-)

Yes Amer, trying to overcome this. Don't know how yet.

Lolz. Oh Amer I am so sorry. It was poetical but you didn't write it in that form so how could one know.

I am good at that. ;-) See I discovered one in myself too.

Forgiving and forgetting are one of the most important acts which one needs to learn in life if he wishes to lead a peaceful life.Unless and untill you let go of things u'll never be able to trust ppl, but its a good thing to be cautious and go steadily in a relationship. Most important "Do not trust blindly". And secondly if ur stars have that u'll fall in love then definately u will. But remember love and infatuation are two different feelings.

 Iola u post so many buzzes n blog about LOVE ,TRUST and so many related thingz. So i bet you are in LOVE or there is a big LOVE story behind all that.

      ARE U IN LOVE ?

To be in love is not wrong... but love should be with relations,
there must be trust but it should belong to relations not people... if
you trust and love your relations, it will never ever let you down but
if you are going to trsut on people it can harmfull for you, if you are
a girl or boy and feel that you have fallen in love and have blind
trust ( without marriage ) . . . you go with that relation which isnt
exist in reality ( now a days such relations called love relations )...
wht it ends...??? the feelings emotions and time, which are hundred and
ten percent reserve for some relation and the person who is bounded
with that relation are going to be dishonest.... so advise you Iola try
to trust on your relations blood relations and friends , but not with
timely relations.

In fact, i use to spend my a lot of time to
teach my students that plz dnt waste your feelings and emotions and dnt
give the people a chance to break your trust, as now a days media is
teaching it every time on every channal...

i really get irritate
by the dialogue in MOVIE "JUB WE MET", when  kareena said to shhid
lapoor that "APNI MAA KO MAAF KER DO, UNHOUN NAY AGER BHAG K KISSI SAT
SHADI KER LI TOU KIYA HOWA, USS WQT SHE WZ IN LOVE AND THERE IS NOT
RITE AND WRONG IN LOVE", dnt we understand its wrong lesson which is
going to teach our nwe generation... i dint nitised the dialogue , in fact one of my students discus it ( as i m use to of being frnak with my students...) she wz saying "mam kiya muhabbat main kiya giya her faisalla sahi hotta hay" at that time you cnt guess abt my situation... anyways i did control and make her concept clear... i dnt know how much she will follow it... but its all discusting...

for God sake do something for your generation, its time when you are just seeing the sthings around you bt tomorrow same lesson will reflects from yuor children.... from your new comming generation... 

try to be sincere with you relations either they are in your life or just in waiting more :) , just belive they will and have a lot of happines and joy for you that will only for you... at that time Iola i belive you will do trsut and in your life there will be a time when you have blind trust to some one who really deserve that... 

Sadia 's lessons for Iola.

                    Good lessons sadia for Iola.

                    Iola we hope you are not in any kind of blind love or something if you

                    are Miss.Sadia Tabussum can be your best teacher .

My attitude Ummm lol towards what mam .

when you over come your fears n pain u attain teh absolute state of contentment.

peace