I Hate You
submitted 3 months 14 days 12 hours ago by: PostMan : 10 commentsThis is a post I wrote some time ago on my blog. I had to post it here because on one previous Buzz, a buzzer made a comment on 'choorri/ jamadarni' (a cleaning lady usually a christian). The reference had reminded me of a comment that is assciated with these ladies which is that 'if you (a muslim) 'do the act' with a choorri, your back will become stronger!' (kamar mazboot hoti hay!)
Just imagine the hatred associated with this sentence.
"I Hate You"
We really hate each other.. when it comes to religion that is. I do not know what is it but when religion is involved, somehow the hatred level just shoots up. Ethnicity and religious factors, I guess, have killed more people than any other thing. In this post, I am more interested in religious hatred. This hatred could be intra-religious or inter-religious. Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus.. it seems no body trusts each other. When it comes to Islam, Shia sunni are at each others throat. Talking of local scenario, it would be Deobandis against Barelvis. But Qadianis and Ahmadis are way on top of the list! Oh we muslims hate them the most I guess?!
What the hell.
Ok lets start with myself. I have a tag of 'sunni' on my forehead. I would like to call myself 'muslim' but.. forget it. When I was in school, the shias were the enemy number one I was told. Not my family but my friends - mosque ones in specific. I was told that I should not eat anything from a shia because they spit in it and then give it to sunnis to eat! No kidding!
Our school text books painted Hindus and Hinduism in a really bad taste. I still remember my history teacher saying "Hindus have a closed mentality which is obvious from their prayer areas whereas muslims are broadminded as you can see from mosques". How lovely. I also had a christian friend in school. He was my best friend. He lived near the school so on more than one occasion I went to his place and ate. Although the prohibition of eating applied on them as well but hey... I was hungry! When I was in class 8th, I told him to convert to Islam! He told me to convert to christianity! and I was like.. 'what the hell..what does one say next?!'. Never asked him again!
When inter-religious conflicts are taken in to consideration, then one can understand that 'fear' of being over powered by another religion does take effect. Crusades can be taken as an example. In todays world, Muslims fear that West in general and America in particular are after everything Islam and muslims. Further, when it comes to ethnic warring, one party is claiming sufferings at the hand of another because either the rights are being subjugated or the land perhaps is being taken. Perhaps the majority ethnic group is in control of financial matters and is not giving due right to other ethnic group. I mean, there is a reason to be feeling opposed. But in this case where various sects of Islam are concerned.. there is nothing! We just hate one another for our respective faiths! Don't we?! Or 'fear' working here as well?
In Pakistan things are really complex. There are so many sects and each does not have a liking for one another. In Northern Pakistan, Chilas and Gilgit are notorious for sectarian clashes. People used to burn down villages of opposing sects. In Parachinar, 100s of people have lost their lives. Shias and sunnis killing each other.. militant political wings of Sunis and Shias outdoing one another. for what?
One thing I fail to understand is that why we hate Ahmadis and Qadiyanis so much! So what if they believe in another person as prophet and do not consider Prophet Muhammad to be the last of all the prophets?! I still have my jewels complete in numbers and with me after hearing this! I mean if they are wrong, God will take care of them on Judgment Day! He will whip them or whatever after the results are in! No? What on earth is being taken from us for their beliefs?! I mean Christians believe in trinity. We muslims don't make fuss of that too much but when it comes to Ahmadis or Qadiyanis.. all hell breaks loose! Why? Dr. Abdul Salam, the only Nobel laureate from Pakistan in Physics, is not given his due share only because he was a Qadiyani.
Its not just within muslim world that hatred exists. I have been part of anti-islamic discussion boards and the hate was unbelievable. You could not hear a sane voice. Whether its publishing of cartoons or anti-islamic video by that dutch politician.. hatred seems to be at work.
Unfortunate.
Source: http://think-islam.blogspot.com/2008/03/i-hate-you.html




















Comments
Very Nice post;Its a really horrible thing and this is the thing where even all types of Enlightened modernization fails...
postman : it is a nice post....we are closed minded becasue we cant hear other one's opinion...This thing doesnt belong to religon, this is related to attitude..You can see this atitude in your family members, friends and colleagues....So religon has nothing to do with it....Attiude develops on the basis of envoirnment, soical cricumstances etc..
regarding ahmadies we had a long discussion few months back so no need to re-ivent teh wheel now.
regarding religious hatered please count that though religon was reason for many battels but the battels which were fought with out any religious prospect are larger in number...such as starting from greek roman period to world wars.... You cant find a religon who supports hatered for others....
I belong to relgious family but no one restricted me to have friends of oteh religon...in my area hindus were my friends and here in lahore in my office we have 7 christions who eat with us and enjoy with us...so no point to hate the person...you may dislike ideology
Mianjee: "religon has nothing to do with it....Attiude develops on the basis of envoirnment, soical cricumstances etc.."
..and Religion! its such an important element mianjee. If you are nice does not mean that everyone thinks like you :) check the link.. read the conversation I had with a gentlemen there. He is an educated person too!
So basically you are ok with Ahmadis? you'll befiend them and eat with them?
I have Ahmedi relatives and they are just as normal as my foreigner friends. I don't know why ppl have a problem with Ahmedis when they don't have any while shaking hands with ppl from the west.
Postman: I have no problem with ahmadies becasue now they represent a seprate religon and for other religons we are supposed to respect them....My two class mates were ahamdies but we boarded with them, spent 3 years, ate , played...
and if they were not of separate religion mianjee? :)
u mean boats?
even then it was not a problem beacause we were never going to discuss it...
PostMan - good, thought-provoking post...
I do not hate anyone --- I believe everyone has the right to worship and belief as he/she sees fit...it is simply our duty to advise not to force conformance...however, I have witnessed the hatred u speak of...what r the solutions? should one just live and let live? (and inevitably, let others die as misunderstandings continue to be harboured and breed???) or should inter-faith dialogue be encouraged so as to stamp out misunderstandings???
More discussions outside your sphere - thats the only solution I see for religious hatred to subside. Somehow religion takes a back seat if your company involves varied-faith people.