If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them...
submitted 1 year 3 hours ago by: sadiaTabasum : 3 commentsyesterday i was reading some articles regarding parents for the sake of writing a speech for my house keeper's son. after reading the following story i rememeber many more events even of my own life's when my parents show affection for my idiot and stupid behave, and i was thinking that i wouldnt be able to bear such an idiotic behave of anyone, how much they love us that they never irritated or annoyed on our stupid attitude. so if your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.
it is a little bit touchy so i gonna share with you guys...
An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.
The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"
The Son replied "It is a crow".
After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".
After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time,
What is this?"
At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".
A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?"
This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"
A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-
"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my
innocent child".
While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.
Comments
This all happens due to lack of interest of parents in their child growth and learning.
In young age children are like small plant, parents can bend them according to their wishes and thoughts but as time passes, the plant becomes tough and hard. When small kid becomes a mature person, it is just like a plant that has developed into tree.
Parents should train their children in young age about good and bad otherwise it will be too late. Parents who do not respect their own parents, how can they think that their own children will respect them?
Parents who do not train their children in young age, they can face the situation described in above article.
Well, that's one point highlighted by Noor Muhammad!
points highlighted by Noor Muhammad, matters a lots.... but there is a difference between human beings and others creations of the world, either it is tree or what so ever.... Human being has sense... sense to make judgement between rite and wrong... brought up matters a lot, off course, u guys are rite... but may we all get that sense which leads us to rite things either its respect to elders or anything else...
Best Regards,
Sadia Tabasum