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Love or Lust
submitted 1 month 24 days 23 hours ago by: Last.Wish : 14 commentsWhy do most of the people fell in love with those who are beautiful or attractive and why not with those who are average or below average.
When we hear a nice voice over a telephone, the first idea which pops up in the mind is that the person might be beautiful or elegant. But most of the times, the reality is different when we meet them in person and if that person is not upto our standards, then in most of the cases the politeness turns into harsh words and ignorance.
This is not true for all the cases but for most of the cases.
In my opinion its Lust not LOVE.
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the scenario u defined is neither a love nor lust:)
Of course we are attracted to outward beauty first and foremost that is just the way of nature. Bees aren't attracted to ANY flower; they are highly selective.
Luckily beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder and whom one may think ordinary another may fall headlong for.
On another note, a good attitude can go a long ways in overcoming any physical deficiencies
If you talk about Love in this modern period than i dont think so because every girl and boy have atleast more than 2 boysfriends and girlfriends as well so this is impossible that they will be sincere with each other. this is just time passing and try make it sexual dream if possible. so i think it is lust not love.
This blog would never have been written had the blogger known what 'love' is.
Iola...it came from your heart........ I know what Love is....and I have experienced it to the fullest.........
The point was that for most of us, physical beauty is more important.....
Most of us thinks that a beautiful person can prove to be very beautiful in nature/life too...thats why every one tries to go for the best...... But its not like that.....
All that glitters is not GOLD...
So what is love?
Khalifah I agree with you.....
"a good attitude can go a long ways in overcoming any physical deficiencies"
Amjad....I agree with you tooo....
Its just to satisfy ones desires...
TAIMUR .
LAST.WISH
I agree with you to some extend it is lust not love.Most of the love marriages result in divorce and couples who were deeply in love with each other before when they know each other closely the love turns in hatred and they get divorced so it was lust not true love and true love unconditional love can never exist between the creation because true love is the love of creator.
very much true Taimur.......
The evidence of Love between GOD and Prophet Muhammad (SAW) (PBUH) is the living example of Mairaj..
"Most of the love marriages result in divorce"
Again a case of false propaganda. How many love marriages have YOU come across that ended in divorce?
Khalifah I wish your Love to succeed
when this fair start it seems to be high than mountain and it come down slowly. Because the sound of "Dhool" here very clear from some distance. but very bad from close. SO the case goes to divorce after marriage. that is story of love.
And if you talk about LUST You Know bette than me.
Love is a choice you make from moment to moment.
Take Care
Dr.Irfan Zafar
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