Irfan, I liked this piece of writing vry much. This shows the both sides of every thing. It's really a good and optimistic message, in which thr is so much depth. These simple words hv vry vry deep thougths and meanings of LIFE. We must be prepared to face evry thing in evry dy life, be it good or bad, ugly or beautiful, positve or negative, bt v should 100% positive in every manner on our part.
so many ppl have said things like that...beautiful touching words...they just don't know how hard it is to actually practice them.....for example when u r losing a dear one to death, u don't think on these lines... no worries,i'll see him again in the life hereafter...n how can u say everything passes by??....time heals wounds only if u let it ...
For me 'A moment of laughter, and a thing of beauty, like Keats said, is a joy forever'. I look back on these moments and memories with pleasure and gratitude!
The rest is transient and eva so rewarding just for this reason! Every test a lesson! Death the biggest of all! :)
submitted 2 months 9 days 19 hours ago — irfanzafar
"I still remember she whispered once, Son, I don't want to live any more, why it is taking so long, pray for my death please!!! What happened after that, we put her under so much soil, deep under the ground and came back. Missed her, never forgot!"
sure they can - they can make the best of the scenario they are in or the resources they have been endowed with - that is what i meant by utilizing ur given time to the max, my dear friend :)
submitted 2 months 9 days 5 hours ago — irfanzafar
Actually I have seen many people suffering all their lives and finally ending up in Grave. For them happiness never came nor did the years of sorrow end.
I agree with the above writing (ideally speaking) but for every individual the circumstances are difeferent. Life in reality is not that perfect. We as humans are driven by our destiny.
Dat is sad..if one is in difficulty and nothing can be done (which I am skeptical of), why not have a positive attitude? Why not find contentment in the confinements that one has if he/she cannot or is unwilling to venture further...? I believe one is always empowered by choice and the mind - unlimited resources...driven by destiny...isn't that a result of some of the choices we exercise...? Your above statement is contradictory to the post, ur saying that sorrow was not temporary for the people u spoke of but stuck to them like smoke from a nearby fire...?
submitted 2 months 6 days 22 hours ago — p singh (not verified)
yes, but if things are bad you have the fear that they will remain bad and you will never be able to experience the good ever and your life will be wasted.
and also some people say that "sab kuch achhay kay liye hi hota hai" which is quite bullshit bcos when someone is diagnosed with a terminal disease there is nothing good thats gonna happen and when several members of a family die in a ceiling collapse ...its for no good. only bad.
Death is an established inavoidable reality of life and though it brings much pain into the lives of those left behind, it should be beyond the stated context.
The fears are created by yourself and they have to be dealt by yourself too.
Dr, i wont like u to follow this path,our differences notwithstanding.....For God sake Think of ur little son (the one who went to the burger trip) ... when i was his age, my worst nightmare was the prospect of losing my baba.....surely u wont like him to suffer...or are u so selfish that u would proceed any way, entrusting him to his grandparent's care?????....
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Irfan, I liked this piece of writing vry much. This shows the both sides of every thing. It's really a good and optimistic message, in which thr is so much depth. These simple words hv vry vry deep thougths and meanings of LIFE. We must be prepared to face evry thing in evry dy life, be it good or bad, ugly or beautiful, positve or negative, bt v should 100% positive in every manner on our part.
RizSh
Doc:
Bohat khoob...
reality of life ...
yes good message by doc and its even a lesson.
very nice indeed
Good piece indeed, Doc
If you believe what is written then why are you so upset with life. Don't worry, the bad patch will end soon...
Peace
so many ppl have said things like that...beautiful touching words...they just don't know how hard it is to actually practice them.....for example when u r losing a dear one to death, u don't think on these lines... no worries,i'll see him again in the life hereafter...n how can u say everything passes by??....time heals wounds only if u let it ...
Yes, you are right, it is really hard to practice. As far as death is concerned, that is ultimate & no one can cheat!
I still remember she whispered once, Son, I don't want to live any more, why it is taking so long, pray for my death please!!!
What happened after that, we put her under so much soil, deep under the ground and came back. Missed her, never forgot!
The show must go on!
For me 'A moment of laughter, and a thing of beauty, like Keats said, is a joy forever'. I look back on these moments and memories with pleasure and gratitude!
The rest is transient and eva so rewarding just for this reason! Every test a lesson! Death the biggest of all! :)
"I still remember she whispered once, Son, I don't want to live any more, why it is taking so long, pray for my death please!!! What happened after that, we put her under so much soil, deep under the ground and came back. Missed her, never forgot!"
This is touching. Very touching and passionate.
Indeed - for life itself is temporary...utilize it to the max :)
"utilize it to the max :)"
not everyone can be that fortunate
sure they can - they can make the best of the scenario they are in or the resources they have been endowed with - that is what i meant by utilizing ur given time to the max, my dear friend :)
Actually I have seen many people suffering all their lives and finally ending up in Grave. For them happiness never came nor did the years of sorrow end.
I agree with the above writing (ideally speaking) but for every individual the circumstances are difeferent. Life in reality is not that perfect. We as humans are driven by our destiny.
Dat is sad..if one is in difficulty and nothing can be done (which I am skeptical of), why not have a positive attitude? Why not find contentment in the confinements that one has if he/she cannot or is unwilling to venture further...? I believe one is always empowered by choice and the mind - unlimited resources...driven by destiny...isn't that a result of some of the choices we exercise...? Your above statement is contradictory to the post, ur saying that sorrow was not temporary for the people u spoke of but stuck to them like smoke from a nearby fire...?
That is an ideal statements. Deviation in real life are a reality.
It's a situation one transforms into reality...dwelling on something breeds it...think positive and that is what u will reap :)
Very true! :)
Thanks for reminding.
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yes, but if things are bad you have the fear that they will remain bad and you will never be able to experience the good ever and your life will be wasted.
and also some people say that "sab kuch achhay kay liye hi hota hai" which is quite bullshit bcos when someone is diagnosed with a terminal disease there is nothing good thats gonna happen and when several members of a family die in a ceiling collapse ...its for no good. only bad.
Death is an established inavoidable reality of life and though it brings much pain into the lives of those left behind, it should be beyond the stated context.
The fears are created by yourself and they have to be dealt by yourself too.
Hey doc, where are u???? i m not missing u as such but still ,,,PLZ DON'T Be DEAD....
guys it was his last buzz,i think...the tittle has started sounding ambiguous to me:(
oh no
I am alive....for now. Will surely send a suicide note to the buzzvines before fading away. That's my promise.
Dr, i wont like u to follow this path,our differences notwithstanding.....For God sake Think of ur little son (the one who went to the burger trip) ... when i was his age, my worst nightmare was the prospect of losing my baba.....surely u wont like him to suffer...or are u so selfish that u would proceed any way, entrusting him to his grandparent's care?????....
:)
suicide for me is the most selfish act.